Day 22: The pros and cons of social media
This morning I read an article written by a fellow Zebra (person with EDS) on the benefits of social media for those with chronic illness. She shared that it helped her to feel connected to those she cared about even when she couldn't see them physically. Further, she said that it helped her feel like she can, "still 'travel' all over the world and 'visit' friends and family from all walks of life." For me, social media has a significantly different effect. I've struggled as my abilities declined watching friends and family out and about doing wonderful things together. I felt a heavy weight on my heart and questioned if I was a good mom anymore. I struggled with jealousy at the things that others were able to do easily that I couldn't even consider. I found that every time I opened Facebook on my phone it brought my mood lower and lower and I eventually had to cut myself off from it entirely. These days if I want to connect vi