Overdo and Finding Healthy Travel Boundaries
I returned last week from a two-week trip celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary. It was great. I got to do a lot of things, enjoy beautiful weather, and eat fancy food. I also overdid it, like every single day. I keep wanting to think that I've made peace with my physical state and abilities but based on what I sign up for and do, I don't think that's true. There was a lot of "shoulds" being thrown around in my head. I "should" be able to enjoy a full day in a Disney World Park if I'm in a wheelchair. I "should" be able to take down time in the park and not need to go back to the room to rest. The reality was, spending even half a day in a Disney World Park was too much, even in a wheelchair. I went into it with a game plan. I wanted to do as much as we could each day, trying to ride all the rides that my physical condition would allow and see all the different lands. My husband ...